生活的艺术 - 人

最近在工作上的体验，果真是人生的一大课，因为，我必须学会如何面对人，面对各种各样、不同类型的人，甚至是一些超乎你想象的人们。

有些人，身为领导但不会领导，外面给他施点压力，他就只会直接把工作推给下属，完全不先过滤指派任务是否合理，或是否属于部门的工作范围，更不用说在下属被其他部门推卸责任时站上来保护团队、提高士气。他觉得所有的事情都很容易，但是让他做起来他鸡手鸭脚，此刻才知道有很多看起来鸡毛蒜皮的琐碎事绝对可以影响一个任务的成败，最可怜的是，最后他说的话没什么人要听。但是他让我看到什么是没有脾气，还有我最缺乏的耐性。他也可以非常有伸缩性的让你拿假期。:p

有些人自我膨胀，认为自己的永远最对，别人正在前面解释他就马上插嘴，滔滔不绝地说出自己的大道理，再毫不喘气地要你点头说他是对的。他让我看到，不是一味地好斗和有闯劲就是厉害，很多时候，冷静地思考再有礼貌地表达真正的知识才令人敬佩。

有些人最擅长打太级，他们的口头禅是，哎呀这根本不管我的事情，你找谁谁谁吧，我只不过帮帮你而已，待会儿我就走了，你还得请我吃饭咧！他让我破坏了自己的形象，逼我说了一些严肃的话，然后同事们开始觉得哎哟你还挺凶的。

最开心的是，我遇到了一群能干、有魄力、有义气的年轻同事，我们从早见到晚，吃完午饭然后晚餐，有人的车子在雨天坏了全部人一起在雨中修理，有的撑伞有的拿灯，极之浪漫。他们让我看到舒解压力的好方法，让我领悟到人生每一个挫折都是学习的过程，让我感受到齐心协力做好项目的满足，让我真的觉得同事之间可以有友情。

感谢这一个难啃的项目让我再度成长。:)

Angelic Devil - Evan Rachel Wood

She absolutely caught my attention when I saw her picture for the first time - Evan Rachel Wood.



She looks so special, I mean, extraordinary pretty, the angelic face but yet with devilish mysterious kind of character. Just unique.

Sometimes, she is just so sweet:

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Then, you found her in:

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Don't worry, I love man and choose man as my partner of life. And being a woman, I think I definitely feel paranoid if someone like her approaching my partner. :S

Luckily, she got an "unique" taste in man.

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Seven Pounds

Just back from watching "Seven Pounds" after steamboat-ing with housemates, our so-called routine activity once in months, and of course, a short break for me away from hectic work.



Why Seven Pounds? Because of Will Smith, because of Gabriele Muccino, because I was hoping for another "The Pursuit of Happyness".

But I think I'm a bit disappointed after watching it, maybe I don't really like the scene between Tim (or Ben) and Emily, for no reason. Maybe I would prefer if Tim never end his love to his wife, and he just want to help anyone as he could, regardless of whether to ease his guilt to the victims.

The front part was a bit slow, but still okay for me, pity my housemates nearly slept in the beginning. :( But I think Will Smith truly deliver the performance perfectly with his own charisma on the screen, love seeing him expressing every single emotion through his eyes. That's what I like.

What should be next? The Reader I perhaps.

感慨

这一趟回家乡，听到了不少让人感慨的事情。

爸爸好友的儿子，一个自小就天资异常聪颖，琴棋书画样样不学自通的孩子，因患上忧郁症，活在一个自己都无法了解的世界里，而选择走向了不归路，留下遗言，我找不回迷失的自己。

朋友的亲戚，一个努力向上，勤奋用工的优秀生，考上了美国麻省理工大学，前途一片光明，却不幸遭受毫无人性的黑人侮辱。一个在陌生的国度里，对前途满怀期待的好女孩，接受不了肉体上的羞辱，精神崩溃了。

人越是年长，越会发现世事根本不得由你去控制，也更能体会到活在当下的道理。

我不求什么，只求身边的人健健康康，快快乐乐。 愿大家努力工作，认真生活，笑着过每一天。

Life is Fun

How can I conclude my life recently? BUSY!

Weekday, I work until 11pm, go home take bath then continue to work again, until 2am, sleep, wake up at 8:30am (luckily :p), then another busy day.

Weekend, I wake up slightly late, but no shopping no chill out, work from home till late too.

WHAT A LIFE! And you may ask why? Because the Maxis 3G network swap project is in the full swing now, plus my manager who is the strongest player in my team being pulled out from project to concentrate in management, what makes it worse is, my team (now left with 2 kolian engineers) is responsible for the bloody-no-mistake KLCC area. :(

Anyway, things must have their bright side too! To be frank, the heavy workload that I'm having now, at least helps me adapting to the life after my bf leaving Msia again, because I got no time to miss him at all. :p Plus, the workload makes me feel that I'm worthy for the pay, I mean... hey boss you should pay me more! Haha. Then I have one big bonus from thousand miles, a Gucci bag to reward me working so hard recently, of course not from my boss. :p

Great friends always support and care on me. Housemates always call when they haven't seen me at home after 11pm, some friends even finding job for me, LOL! And, our jalan jalan cari makan gang wouldn't stop traveling for food! Travel all the way to Ampang for the genuine yong tao fu... I had a great day because that is the first time I really visit Ampang, I love going somewhere new and seeing something fun! :D

Busy work won't stop me from enjoying my life, will visit bf's sister for her new-born baby after today's work. Baby I'm coming!